What Happened to AA?
That question is being asked by a lot of alcoholics lately. What happened to our high success rate? 30 & 40 years
ago, we were keeping 75% or more of the alcoholics who came to us for help. Today, we aren't keeping even 5%. What happened?
What happened to that wonderful A.A. Group that was around for 20,
30 or 40 years? There used to be 50, 75, 100 or
more at every meeting. It is now a matter of history, gone! More and more groups are folding every day. What happened? We
hear a lot of ideas, opinions and excuses as to what happened but things are not improving. They continue to get worse. What
Bill W. wrote, "In the years ahead A.A. will, of course, make mistakes. Experience has taught us that we need have no
fear of doing this, providing that we always remain willing to admit our faults and to correct them promptly. Our growth as
individuals has depended upon this healthy process of trial and error. So will our growth as a fellowship. Let us always remember
that any society of men and women that cannot freely correct its own faults must surely fall into decay if not into collapse.
Such is the universal penalty for the failure to go on growing. Just as each A.A. must continue to take his moral inventory
and act upon it, so must our whole Society if we are to survive and if we are to serve usefully and well." (A.A. Comes of
Age, PG 231) With so very few finding lasting sobriety and the continued demise of AA groups, it is obvious that we have not
remained willing to admit our faults and to correct them promptly. Seems to me that the Delegate of the Northeast Ohio Area,
Bob Bacon, identified our mistakes and our faults when he talked to a group of AA's in 1976. He said, in essence, we are no
longer showing the newcomer that we have a solution for alcoholism. We are not telling them about the Big Book and how very
important that Book is to our long-term sobriety. We are not telling them about our Traditions and how very important they
are to the individual groups and to Alcoholics Anonymous as a whole. Rather, we are using our meeting time for drunkalogs,
a discussion of our problems, ideas and opinions or "my day" or "my way".
Having been around for a few years, and reflecting on what Bob Bacon had to say, it would appear that we have permitted
newcomers to convince the old-timers that they have a better idea. They had just spent 30 or more days in a treatment facility
where they had been impressed with the need to talk about their problems in Group Therapy Sessions. They had been told that
it didn't make any difference what their real problem was; A.A. had the "best program". They were told that they should go
to an A.A. meeting every day for the 1st 90 days out of treatment. They were told that they shouldn't make any major decisions
for the 1st year of their sobriety. And what they were told goes on and on, most of which are contrary to the Program of Alcoholics
Anonymous! Apparently, what they were told sounded pretty good to the A.A. members who were here when the TC clients started
showing up at our meetings. And a lot of the A.A. members liked the idea of the treatment centers because the centers provided
a place where they could drop off a serious drinker, if he/she had insurance. That eliminated some of the inconveniences we
had been plagued with before; having to pour orange juice and honey or a shot of booze down a vibrating alky to help them
"detox". When A.A. was very successful, the folks who did the talking in meetings were recovered alcoholics. The suffering
and untreated alcoholics listened. After hearing what it takes to recover, the newcomer was faced with a decision; "Are you
going to take the Steps and recover or are you going to get back out there and finish the job?" If they said they "were willing
to go to any length", they were given a sponsor, a Big Book and began the process of recovery by taking the Steps and experiencing
the Promises that result from that course of action. This process kept the newcomer involved in working with others and continued
the growth of our Fellowship. Our growth rate was approximately 7% and the number of sober members of Alcoholics Anonymous
doubled every 10 years. With the advent of the rapid growth of the Treatment Industry, the acceptance of our success with
alcoholics by the judicial system and endorsement of physicians, psychiatrist, psychologist, etc. all kinds of people were
pouring into A.A. at a rate greater than we had ever dreamed possible. Almost without realizing what was happening, our meetings
began changing from ones that focused on recovery from alcoholism to "discussion or participation" types of meetings that
invited everyone to talk about whatever was on their mind. The meetings evolved from a program of spiritual development to
the group therapy type of meeting where we heard more and more about "our problems" and less and less about the Program of
Recovery by the Big Book and the preservation of our Fellowship by adhering to our Traditions.
What has been the result of all this? Well, never have we had so many coming to us for help. But never have we had such
a slow growth rate which has now started to decline. For the first time in our history, Alcoholics Anonymous is losing members
faster than they are coming in and our success rate is unbelievably low. (Statistics from the Inter-Group Office of some major
cities indicate less than 5% of those expressing a desire to stop drinking is successful for more than 5 years; a far cry
from the 75% reported by Bill W. in the Forward to Second Edition). The change in the content of our meetings is proving to
be misery-traps for the newcomer and in turn, misery-traps for the groups that depend on the "discussion or participation"
Why is this? The answer is very simple. When meetings were opened so that untreated alcoholics & non-alcoholics were
given the opportunity to express their ideas, their opinions, air their problems and tell how they were told to do it where
they came from, the confused newcomer became more confused with the diversity of information that was being presented. More
and more they were encouraged to "just go to meetings and don't drink" or worse yet, "go to 90 meetings in 90 days". The newcomer
no longer was told to take the Steps or get back out there and finish the job. In fact, they are often told, "Don't rush into
taking the Steps. Take your time." The alcoholics who participated in the writing of the Big Book didn't wait. They took the
Steps in the first few days following their last drink. Thank God, there are those in our Fellowship, like Joe & Charlie,
Wally, etc., who have recognized the problem and have started doing something about it. They are placing the focus back on
the Big Book.
There have always been a few groups that would not yield to the group therapy trend. They stayed firm to their commitment
to try to carry a single message to the suffering alcoholic. That is to tell the newcomer "we have had a spiritual awakening
as the result of these Steps and if you want to recover, we will see that you have a sponsor who has recovered and will lead
you along the path the 1st
100 laid down for us".
Recovered alcoholics have begun founding groups that have a single purpose and inform the newcomer that until they have
taken the steps and recovered, they will not be permitted to say anything in meetings. They will listen to recovered alcoholics,
they will take the Steps, they will recover and then they will try to pass their experience and knowledge on to the ones who
are seeking the kind of help we provide in Alcoholics Anonymous. As this movement spreads, as it is beginning to, Alcoholics
Anonymous will again be very successful in doing the one thing God intended for us to do and that is to help the suffering
alcoholic recover, if he has decided he wants what we have and is willing to go to any length to recover, to take and apply
our Twelve Steps to our lives and protect our Fellowship by honoring our Twelve Traditions.
There is a tendency to want to place the blame for our predicament on the treatment industry and professionals. They
do what they do and it has nothing to do with what we in Alcoholics Anonymous do. That is their business. That is not where
to place the blame and also is in violation of our Tenth Tradition.
The real problem is that the members of Alcoholics Anonymous, who were here when the "clients" began coming to our Fellowship
did not help the "clients" understand that our Program had been firmly established since April 1939, and that the guidelines
for the preservation and growth of our Fellowship were adopted in 1950. That they must get rid of their new "old ideas" and
start practicing the Twelve Step Program of Alcoholics Anonymous as it was given to us. That until they had taken the Steps
and recovered, they had nothing to say that needed to be heard except by their sponsor. But that didn't happen. To the contrary,
the old timers failed in their responsibility to the newcomer to remind them of a vital truth, "Rarely have we seen a person
fail who has thoroughly followed our path. Those who do not recover are people who cannot or will not completely give themselves
to this simple program." We have permitted untreated alcoholics and non-alcoholics to sit in our meetings and lay out their
problems, ideas and opinions. We have gone from, "Rarely have we seen a person fail" to "Seldom do we see a person recover".
So there we are. We have had 30 years of unbelievable success by following the directions in the Big Book. We have had
30 years of disappointing failure by wanting to hear from everyone. We now have something to compare. We now know what the
problem is and we know what the solution is. Unfortunately, we have not been prompt to correct the faults and mistakes which
have been created by what would appear to be large doses of apathy and complacency. The problem we are trying to live with
is needlessly killing alcoholics.
The Solution? The Power, greater than ourselves, that we find through our Twelve Steps, promises recovery for those who
are willing to follow the clear-cut directions in the Big Book.
Do you want to be a part of the problem or a part of the solution? Simple, but not easy, a price has to be paid.
I am guilty of using meetings for group therapy
Reg - Langley B.C.